How You Can Deal With Online Dating Rejection
Whether you are dating in the "outside" world or online dating, rejection is a very real fear and problem for most men. In the majority of cases, it’s not the fear of approaching women that is the problem but it’s the actual rejection itself. I’m sure a lot of guys would rather lose an arm than go through the humiliation of rejection.
So how’s a guy meant to deal with it? Well, by changing your thinking and accepting that rejection can actually have certain benefits, you can begin to see things in a different way (glass half full, instead of half empty).
Just realise that each "no" that you get is actually bringing you "closer" to a "yes". Quite often in life, things happen for a reason and it’s possible that the women that reject you are actually doing you a huge favour… potentially saving you a lot of time, money and energy on the wrong woman for you. See how your mindset changes when you look at it from another angle?
Look at it from the point of view that it is the other person that is missing out on a great guy (you), rather than you missing out on her. Don’t take it personally because at the end of the day, they are not rejecting "you" (they don’t even know the real you) they are rejecting some random stranger.
Online dating is really a numbers game so the more no’s that you get, the more practice that you get at approaching and chatting to women. This allows you to refine your inner and outer game, and gain better results in the long run.
If you actually apply the ideas in this article you will find that after awhile, online dating rejection is no longer an issue, but is just part of the whole process called life.
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