Online Dating Advice - Conversation Do’s And Don’ts
One of the biggest questions for guys when it comes to dating online (or offline) is what to talk about and how to keep the conversation going. There are definite do’s and don’ts in regards to what to talk about with women. There is nothing worse than the whole night coming to a grinding halt because you run out of things to say. Probably the best online dating advice is to keep the conversation funny, fun and light.
The biggest mistake you can make is to talk about things that are boring and predictable. So don’t be talking about the weather, your mother, which school you went to or where you grew up. The problem with this is that most guys will talk about these topics and it’s all but guaranteed to bore any girl to tears. Be DIFFERENT to all the other guys. Be interesting, intriguing, unpredictable and funny.
Tease her about something in a funny, playful way. Show her that you are not intimidated by her, or needy, clingy or hung-up on getting her approval (like most of the wussy guys that she talks to).
Talk to her about some interesting places that you have travelled to or that you want to go to in the future. Also, talk about some great recipes that you have cooked, fine wine, or celebrities getting themselves in trouble (again). There are tonnes of interesting topics that you could bring up… just plan ahead and jot down some of the things that come to mind and use them later on in emails or face to face meetings.
And just on that, if you are meeting in person, plan to keep the date fairly short (no more than about 60 to 90 minutes) and be the one to end the date. That way you won’t have enough time to run out of things to say, the date will be fairly "lively" during that short time and your lady friend will have the feeling that it’s all over too soon.
Just keep in mind that this is not a life and death situation. The best online dating advice is don’t get hung-up on the outcome… indifference can be a very powerful mind-set. This can actually set-up a playful mood and create a powerful attraction.
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