Why Most Guys Suck At Online Dating
Most guys tend to jump into online dating head-first and think that this will be the answer to their prayers. They think that somehow by magic they will be swamped with loads of hot women pursuing them. After a couple of weeks of no results, reality hits home and they are forced to face the fact that online dating is a lot harder than it seems. Does this sound familiar to you? So what exactly are guys doing to screw up their chances with women? Let’s have a look at a few of them…
Profile too wordy
Most guys tend to put way too much information in their profile. If you tell your entire life story, there is nothing left to know about you. So this means that there is no mystery or intrigue that surrounds you which results in less interest from women. You have to leave some room for "wondering" about you… the curiosity factor. Just provide some basic information about yourself, your interests and passions… but don’t write a book.
The guy is too clingy or needy
This will come across loud and clear in the guy’s profile and any emails that he sends to potential dates. You can tell that he is desperate, insecure and scared of being alone. Just present yourself as a fun guy that’s on that particular site to meet fun, interesting women. Convey the idea that your standards are very high and that YOU are selecting the right woman for you… and not the other way around. That’s a POWERFUL mindset.
The guy is too boring
Do you want to come across as boring? Well, just use the same boring, lame lines that everyone else uses in their profiles and emails. What happens is that the women just gloss over these profiles and mass delete emails because they have read them a thousand times (or more) before. So go and have a look at a heap of guys’ profiles to get an idea of what the women have to read each day. Then… make yours stand out from the crowd. Be creative and different.
Make a commitment to yourself that you will get this part of your life sorted out… the results will be well and truly worth it. Keep furthering your online dating education and training no matter what it takes.
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